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LED+LDR combo, digipot, LM13700, THAT2181, PGA2310, MUSE72320, MDAC, relay array... welcome to my world.How quiet does it need to be? How many steps? How accurate? How much 'kill' do you need? What taper? How expensive?
Have a look at something like the Analog Devices AD5252 non volatile I2C digital pot IC's.