Thanks guys!
Just programming the Arduino directly until I got it all figured out sounds like a smart move. I just ordered a Nano Every, which is currently the cheapest offer from Arduino themselves and significantly more powerful than the regular Nano and Uno. I ordered the version with headers, so it plugs right into the breadboard. I decided against a cheap clone for now because the ones I found for cheap all seem to have a different USB chip (if I understood the info on that correctly, which may not be the case since most of it reads like it was Google translated from Chinese), which seems to cause a host of problems for people who don't know what they are doing, aka me. Plus, the genuine Arduino is less than a coffee plus muffin at Starbucks, and I never go to Starbucks, so I save an Arduinos worth of money every day. Yes, this is how I run my finances and yes it goes about as badly as you'd think. Plan on graduating to cheap clones later.
Wish me luck,
Andy